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Humiliation

admin — Tue, 07 Sep 2010 14:19:28 +0000

In BDSM, term describes consensual use of verbal and physical degrading in a sexual content, performed in a public or private surrounding. Humiliation doesn’t need to be sexual itself, but it does imply sexual arousal that person gets from being humiliated or by humiliating another. Not to be confused with dominance, as the devotee doesn’t necessarilly enjoy being controlled or ordered about. There are many basic or complex scenarios that may include sexual humiliation and they usually consist of verbal and tangible aspects.

Kinky

admin — Mon, 06 Sep 2010 13:46:49 +0000

Refers to playful and intelligent usage of sexual concepts in an overtly expressive form. Showing interest for deviant or even bizarre tastes and going beyond conventional sexual practices. People and prospective partners with kinky interests may communicate through characteristic expressions such as gesture, dress and encouraging behavior.

HOM (hand over mouth)

admin — Sun, 05 Sep 2010 13:24:23 +0000

Abbrevation for hand over mouth, which is a practice of using hands to cover mouth and nose as to prevent normal breathing. The practice is especially enjoyed by submissives with a fetish for breathplay games, who derive sexual pleasure from having their breath controlled by dominants.

Hogtie

admin — Sat, 04 Sep 2010 13:15:48 +0000

Bondage method of binding limbs together and thus making tied subject immobile. Name derives from its past usage on pigs. In sexual bondage, submissive person is laid flat on the belly, with wrists and ankles tied together behind the person’s back. This is usually done with rope or metal restraints such as chains or handcuffs.

Handcuffs

admin — Fri, 03 Sep 2010 13:15:14 +0000

Metal device that restrains submissive person by securing his/her wrists close together. They consist of two pieces connected with a chain, hinge or even a bar. Once around the wrists, hancuffs cannot be removed without the key, which makes hand movement and completion of harder tasks impossible.

Gag

admin — Thu, 02 Sep 2010 13:14:57 +0000

A restraining part of BDSM equipment designed to prevent speech and stop the gagged subject from calling for help. It’s usually done by partially/completely covering mouth in attempt to stop tongue, jaw or lips move in normal way. Gag also carries connotations of control and humiliation, so it may be used as a form of punishment for the wearer. Effectiveness of a gag reflects its potential hazard and it involves a certain risk of asphyxia, so gagged subjects shouldn’t be left alone. Some of the most common types are: ball gag, bit gag (similar to one used in bridle for a horse), spider gag, harness and penis gag, inflatable etc.

Foot fetish

admin — Wed, 01 Sep 2010 13:07:44 +0000

Strongly marked sexual interest in feet or specific footwear. Most widespread type of fetishism that includes body parts that are otherwise non-sexual. Points of attraction for foot fetishists are mostly size and shape of the foot and toes, pedicure treatments, jewelry such as toe rings and ankle bracelets, odor and any form of sensory contact like licking, sucking, teasing, foot jobs or rough trampling.

Fetish

admin — Tue, 31 Aug 2010 12:47:09 +0000

Any object, situation or body part that brings sexual arousal, but is not conventionally viewed as sexual in nature. Even when including a partner, sexual acts involving fetishes are usually objectified. Body parts may also be subject of sexual fetishes, most commonly feet, genitalia or breasts. It is interesting that most of the literature regarding fetishism is in reference to heterosexual men having fetish on highly feminine items such as lingerie, hosiery, high heels, etc.

Femdom

admin — Mon, 30 Aug 2010 12:32:14 +0000

Compound abbrevation for female dominance. It refers to BDSM scenes or relationships in which female is the dominant partner. Activites exercised in a femdom relationship may be gender-neutral (corporal punishment, tease and denial etc.) or imply gender role reversal when practiced with a male submissive partner (strap-on pentration). It is considered that practice of femdom stems directly from feminism and its tendencies towards female dominated society.

Electricity play

admin — Sun, 29 Aug 2010 12:14:53 +0000

Sexual practice consisting of nerve stimulation via low-frequency electrical stimulation. To achieve such stimulation, power source (such as TENS, EMS or violet wands) adapted for purpose of sexual stimulation is used. Areas targeted are most commonly genitals. Respecting safety aspects is essential, since abuse of electric toys can cause tissue damage or even death.